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February 12, 2005

Hey Lianne,
I asked this girl out a couple of times, and she agreed. Though she makes no attempt to e-mail me on her own accord or ask me to do things, she is very willing to go out and she returns my calls when I leave her messages.

So after talking to her on the phone a few times now and going to a couple of movies, do you think I should ask her if she feels awkward around me? Should I say anything as I am a very direct guy and I don't like girls messing with my head? I do want to do more things with her to see what type of girl she is. But I feel kind of lost because I am the only one initiating things right now.
-- Anonymous Guy

Dear Anonymous,
Stop calling her and see what happens. Meanwhile, keep yourself busy and keep your options open -- don't think about her all the time, you'll go crazy! If she is interested in you, she will call you. If she calls, you can call her back the next time. From then on, take turns with her when it comes to calling and asking each other out. Give her the chance to reciprocate and see if she takes it. If not, let her go, and give yourself the freedom to find someone who is really interested, and who will give you the time and attention you want and need. Remember -- you can never make someone become interested in you. They either are or they aren't, there's nothing you can do.

Good luck, and if you find yourself hurting and lonely -- start learning something you've always wanted to learn. When you improve yourself it makes your confidence shine through, which will make you irresistable to women!

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